People are drawn to those who don't need anyone to be drawn to them. We seek that which we lack. What are some things that attract other people to us? Well, you can forget the external stuff; while you car, house or title might command attention, those things won't create lasting attraction. So what will?

•Peacefulness
•Confidence
•Kindness
•Generosity (be clear: it's not about the stuff, it's about the giving)
•Hospitality
•Forgiveness
•Wisdom

So if you want to become utterly irresistible, you do it by focusing on — and growing — those qualities listed above.

Giving new meaning to the aphorism, “Become the change you seek in the world.”